In response, speaking not only to the Apostles but to anyone who might grapple with this question, Jesus affirmed, "Everyone who is hindered from following Me by his brothers or sisters, or by his father or mother or wife or children, or by his attachment to his wealth, house or land, and who forsakes all these things for My sake and My gospel, will receive in this same life, here on earth, in the midst of the persecution awaiting him, a hundred times more houses, brothers and sisters, fathers and mothers, children and lands; and in the age to come Eternal Life. As for you who have followed Me, in the future age, when the Son of Man sits on the throne of His glory, you also will sit on twelve thrones to judge the twelve tribes of Israel" (Matthew 19:28).
Jesus reaffirmed the Old Testament commandment to honor one's father and mother and called for love towards not only family and neighbors but also enemies, directing His followers to do good to all. Therefore, He could not demand that His disciples abandon their parents, spouses, children, siblings, and others unless these relationships obstructed their ability to live according to God's will. Caring for one's spouse, children, and elderly parents is a responsibility that should be set aside only in extreme circumstances, when the choice is between denying Christ to please loved ones or leaving them to uphold faithfulness to Him. In such instances, Jesus permitted the renunciation of parents and relatives, relieving His followers from their obligations to them.
Understanding the difficulty of forsaking family ties built on kinship, friendship, and love, as well as the home where one was raised, Jesus comforts His disciples with the assurance that those who relinquish their families, homes, and lands for His sake will find a hundredfold reward in this life. In the early centuries of Christianity, amidst the persecution of believers, Christians formed a united family, treating one another as brothers and sisters in Christ. Each Christian's home was open to others; thus, anyone who left their home and family for Christ’s sake entered a community of believers where they could find in the elders, parental figures who provided care and support, in peers, siblings, and in the younger members, a new generation of children, enjoying many more familial connections than they had before.
Moreover, beyond this temporary solace following the loss of loved ones, those who prioritize Christ above all else will receive the promise of eternal life in the age to come. This stands as the reward for all who follow Christ, believing wholeheartedly in His divine nature and teachings.