The text addresses conflict, yet let us reflect on the spirit of serenity. Peace declares, "A woman when she gives birth suffers sorrow because her time has come, but when she has delivered a child, she no longer remembers anguish for joy that a person has been born into the world" (John 16:21). He continued, "So now you have sorrow; but I will see you again, and your heart will rejoice" (John 16:22). Through this, He demonstrated that fullness of joy is found in those perfected, while those frail bear anxiety from life’s unpredictable changes. It is no coincidence that earlier it stated: "They ate and drank, they married and were given in marriage" (Luke 17:27), indicating their commitment to earthly pursuits and their entanglement with worldly concerns.
Those pregnant women addressed with "Woe!" are those who indulge the weaknesses of their flesh, thus obstructing their spiritual journeys; they are not enriched with virtues, but rather burdened with vices. Condemnation does not fall on mothers who strive to raise righteous offspring; rather, it applies to those who do not bear good fruit. They conceive in reverence of God, as expressed: "For fear of You we conceived and labored" (Isaiah 26:18). Yet not all become life-givers, not all achieve perfection, nor can all declare, "We have brought forth the spirit of salvation on earth" (Isaiah 26:18). Not everyone can mirror Mary, not all conceive by the Holy Spirit, and not all give birth to the Word. Some experience spiritual miscarriages, while others—as Christ dwells within them but they remain undeveloped—hear, "My little children, for whom I labor in birth again until Christ is formed in you" (Galatians 4:19). Infants still in the womb may enter the world imperfectly, and it is only to the perfected that it is said, "I have begotten you… by the gospel" (1 Corinthians 4:15).
In the good news, many become spiritual parents, bringing forth Christ. Who can reveal to me the parents of Christ? He Himself identified them: "Who is my mother? And who are my brothers? For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother" (Matthew 12:48, 50). By fulfilling the will of the Father, you may become the mother of Christ. Many have conceived Christ but have not delivered Him. Only those who give birth to Truth can give birth to Christ; only those who bring forth Wisdom bring forth Christ, and only those who are resolved by the Word are resolved by Christ.
In contrast, some have conceived unrighteousness and have given birth to falsehood (Psalm 7:15). Woe to those expectant mothers whose flesh weighs them down, hindering their escape from dangers! Woe to those whose pain, which grips their entire being, intensifies as labor approaches! This serves as a foreshadowing of impending judgment and the onset of affliction (Matthew 24:8). Moses cautioned that if a pregnant woman is harmed by fighting, she may immediately give birth (Exodus 21:22). Therefore, a wise wife avoids quarrels, seeking peace so she can be safely unburdened, rather than enduring for nine months. The birth of the Word relies on fulfillment, which is characterized not by time alone but by diligence. The righteous, having gained completeness swiftly, achieve what many might take years to fulfill (Wisdom 4:13). In contrast, the imperfect soul is easily distressed, potentially losing the conceived Word. But woe to those who lead one of these little ones astray (Luke 17:1-2). Woe to anyone who harms a pregnant woman! If she gives birth to an unformed child, the penalty is monetary; but if the child is fully formed, the punishment is life for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand (Exodus 21:23-24).
Why a life for an eye or a hand? The child already has limbs and sight, as the fetus is formed; the offender must be judged according to the damage inflicted. If a heretic or apostate is birthed from the soul or the Church, their punishment may be less severe; whereas, if a faithful one suffers, their punishment is greater. Caution must be taken to shield the Church from harm by engaging in disputes with such individuals! Steer clear of foolish and ignorant arguments, knowing they lead to strife (2 Timothy 2:23), which tortures the Church like labor pains to a woman.
Allow your womb to be abundantly filled so that you may deliver soon. Understand how to nourish it and with what: "From the fruit of a man's mouth his womb is filled; by the produce of his mouth he is satisfied" (Proverbs 18:20).
On the matter of nursing, Solomon’s wise ruling in the case of two women serves as a lesson (1 Kings 3:16-28). Both had given birth after enduring labor pains, yet they were tormented by the fear of proving their motherhood. One woman, overwhelmed by sleep, claimed another's child as her own. The other, whose child remained unharmed, found herself in a precarious situation, uncertain of the trial's outcome.
Let us strive to nurture our progeny lest, in the face of judgment or death, we recognize ourselves as the parents of flawed endeavors. When Isaac was weaned and the peril of his mother's sleep had passed, Abraham held a great feast (Genesis 21:8). David, once weaned (Psalms 130:2), anticipates the reward of his soul. The Corinthian, in the initial stage of his faith, is unable to consume solid food and relies on milk, but in due time, fortified by solid sustenance, he will reach maturity (1 Corinthians 3:2; Hebrews 5:12; Ephesians 4:13). It is evident that merely giving birth is insufficient; proper nurturing is essential.
May you, like Mary, allow the Word of God to thrive within you and grow in wisdom and stature (Luke 2:52). This is achievable if youkeep all the truths in your heart, and do not wait until late in life; instead, early on be espoused, remaining incorrupt in body to a righteous Husband, swift to conceive, quick to deliver, and eager to excel in wisdom. Consider Paul! Just yesterday he was a persecutor; today he believes, and tomorrow he proclaims (Acts 9:1-22).