John Chrysostom
After saying that many find rest with him, and that he shows gentleness and faith toward all, the Apostle finally begins his speech. In this way he persuades him with particular force.
Indeed, if others receive from him what they ask, then Paul should all the more receive it. If Paul, coming before others, would have been worthy to receive it, then all the more after others.
This is especially so since he asks not for himself, but for another. Then, lest it seem that he writes only for this reason, and lest someone say, If there were no Onesimus, you would not have written this epistle, see how he brings forward other reasons for writing.
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First, he points to Philemon's love. Second, he commands him to prepare a lodging for himself. "Having heard," he says, "of your love." This is worthy of wonder and means more than if he had seen it personally.
Clearly it was exceedingly great, since it became known and reached his ears, although the distance between Rome and Phrygia was not small.
Philemon was there, as I conclude from the name of Archippus, who is mentioned here and in the Epistle to the Colossians.
The Colossians lived in Phrygia, and in the epistle to them Paul said: "When this epistle has been read among you, see that it is read also in the church of the Laodiceans; and that you likewise read the epistle from Laodicea" (Col 4:16).
Laodicea is a city of Phrygia.