John Chrysostom
Then, showing that his illness was prolonged and exhausted him for a long time, he says: "For he was sick, near to death." Do you see how much Paul cares to remove every thought of carelessness and negligence from the souls of the disciples? He does not want them to think that he neglects them and therefore did not come. Nothing can so draw a disciple as the conviction that the teacher both cares and grieves for him. This is a sign of extraordinary love. "You heard," he says, "of his illness. For he was sick, near to death." And that I do not speak falsely, listen: "But God had mercy on him." What will you say, heretic? Here the Apostle calls it God's mercy that He preserved a man close to death and returned him to life. But if the world is evil, then leaving someone in evil is not mercy.
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It is easy, however, to speak with a heretic. What shall we say to a Christian? Perhaps he too will be perplexed and say: if "to depart and be with Christ is far better," Phil. 1:23, why does he say that God had mercy on him? I will ask in return: why does he say, "to remain in the flesh is more needful for you," Phil. 1:24? This was needful both for the Apostle and for Epaphroditus. Epaphroditus was to depart to God with greater wealth and greater boldness. Though this did not happen then, it was to happen later. But once one has gone there, it is no longer possible to gain souls. Paul also says many things according to the ordinary understanding of his hearers. He does not philosophize everywhere, since his word was addressed to worldly people who still feared death. Then he shows what esteem he has for Epaphroditus. Through this he makes him worthy of honor, calling his preservation so useful to himself that he himself received mercy through it. Besides this, the present life is good. If it is not good, why does the Apostle place premature death among punishments? For example, he says: "For this reason many of you are weak and sick, and many sleep," 1 Cor. 11:30. The future life is not better for an evil man, because it is not good. But for a good man it is better. "Lest," he says, "I should have sorrow upon sorrow," sorrow over death added to sorrow over illness. By this he shows how much he honors Epaphroditus.