John Chrysostom
On the other hand, benefactors become more negligent when they see in the recipient not a good disposition, but contempt for their alms. They give generously when they call forth gratitude and bring relief.
Therefore, lest this happen, and lest someone say that Paul disdains relief, and that they therefore necessarily became negligent, see how he forestalls this too. By the preceding words he destroyed their conceit. By what follows he stirs up their zeal, saying, "Nevertheless you have done well, having shared in my affliction."
Do you see how he both separated himself and joined himself to them again? This is the mark of sincere, spiritual friendship. Do not think, he says, that I have no need of your help because I suffer no need. I suffer need for our sake.
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How then did they share in his afflictions? Even as a prisoner he said, "You all are partakers with me of grace" (Phil 1:7). For to suffer for Christ is grace, as he himself says elsewhere: "For to you it has been granted on behalf of Christ not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for Him" (Phil 1:29).
These words, spoken separately, could have grieved the Philippians. Therefore the Apostle consoles them, receives them, and again praises them, though with moderation.
Indeed, he did not say, "by giving," but, "For to you it has been granted on behalf of Christ not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for Him." He wished to show that they too gained benefit, because they became partakers in the rewards.
He did not say, "relieving my afflictions," but, "sharing in my affliction," which is greater. Do you see Paul's humility? Do you see his nobility?
After showing that he had no personal need of their alms, he could already speak without fear even humble words, such as the poor use when one is accustomed to give them something.
He refuses nothing, neither deeds nor words, provided only that he accomplish what he desires. What then does this mean? Do not think, he says, that my reproach and the words "you have begun again" came from shamelessness or from my need.
No, I do not say this because of need. Why then? Because of my special confidence in you, and you yourselves are the cause of this confidence.
Do you see how he cares for them? He says to them: you are the cause; you were the first before others to undertake this work, and you gave us boldness to remind you of it.
Notice also the Apostle's dignity. When the Philippians did not send, he did not reproach them, lest he appear to care for himself. But when they had sent, then he reproached them for the past time.
They bore the reproach, because it could no longer be thought that he cared for himself.