Proverbs 5:17Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

In stating that he alone delights, it suggests enjoyment.

Those who lack love for God are outsiders and are referred to as antichrists. Despite their presence within churches, they cannot be regarded as children of God, and the life-giving Source does not pertain to them. One can be baptized or possess the gift of prophecy and still be a wicked person. A notable example is King Saul, who prophesied while he pursued Saint David, even though he was filled with the spirit of prophecy and began to proclaim God's words (1 Samuel 19:20-24). Similarly, a malicious individual may partake of the sacrament of the Body and Blood of Christ; concerning these individuals, it is written that whoever partakes unworthily brings judgment upon themselves (1 Corinthians 11:29).

Gather for yourself the fruit of joy and happiness. The sweetness of your grace resides within you; it is sourced from you and dwells in you. You should seek the sweetness of your clear conscience within yourself. Hence, it is declared, "Drink water from thy reservoir, and flowing from thy well."

The teacher shares with his young followers the wise counsel inherited from his parents, cautioning them against the lures of unfamiliar women, while encouraging them to seek joy and affection within their own households; they should do this confidently, for all paths are open before God, and any deviation from His commandments carries serious consequences.

Keep your belongings to yourself and do not allow outsiders to share in your fellowship. Fidelity in marriage is the guarantee of a thriving family. In contrast, those who are morally reckless waste their resources on others; however, a husband who remains devoted to his rightful wife accumulates wealth solely for himself and his family, excluding any outsiders from his estate.