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Song of Songs 3:4Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

When I had a little passed by them, I found him whom my soul loveth: I held him: and I will not let him go, till I bring him into my mother's house, and into the chamber of her that bore me.

Douay-Rheims

כִּמְעַט֙ שֶׁעָבַ֣רְתִּי מֵהֶ֔ם עַ֣ד שֶֽׁמָּצָ֔אתִי אֵ֥ת שֶׁאָהֲבָ֖ה נַפְשִׁ֑י אֲחַזְתִּיו֙ וְלֹ֣א אַרְפֶּ֔נּוּ עַד־שֶׁ֤הֲבֵיאתִיו֙ אֶל־בֵּ֣ית אִמִּ֔י וְאֶל־חֶ֖דֶר הוֹרָתִֽי׃

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The Church Fathers on this verse

8 Church Fathers comment on this verse · 9 commentaries

Cyrill of Alexandria

5th centuryChurch Father

In the quiet of night, I sought Him on my bed (Song of Songs 3:1). This reflects the women who arrived at Jesus’ tomb early on the first day of the week (Luke 24:1) but did not encounter Him. The phrase “on my bed” could signify a place apart from the bed, or it might represent her own self, paralleling how we are united with Him in burial (See Rom. 6:4). When she learned that He was not there, for He had risen (Matt. 28:6), she was disheartened. Her celestial guardians found her and she inquired, “Where have you taken the Lord?” (Jn. 20:15). Yet, after engaging with them, she encountered Jesus, who greeted them with “Rejoice!” (Matt. 28:9). Thus, she expresses, “But scarcely had I departed from them, when I found him, and would not let him go” (Song 3:4). She clung to His feet and heard Him say, “You should not cling to me” (John 20:17). Her mention of the mother’s house (Song 3:4) symbolizes the Church of the apostles, through which she proclaimed the resurrection of Christ.

Gregory of Nyssa

4th centuryChurch Father

When they chose not to respond to such a question, their silence revealed that the matters she sought were equally beyond their understanding. Thus, as she diligently explored the entirety of this ancient city and failed to recognize the Desired One among spiritual and incorporeal beings, she eventually discerned Him by the sheer unfathomability of His essence. In this Knowable Being, every aspect that can be grasped serves only to hinder seekers from discovering Him.

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Consequently, He proclaims: “When I came a little way from them.” Having departed from all creation and traversed every conceivable aspect of it, I, through faith, have “found” the Beloved and will hold on to the embrace of this faith concerning the One who has been found, clinging to Him until He dwells within my 'palace.' This 'palace' undoubtedly refers to the heart, which becomes spacious enough for the Divine presence when it is restored to the state it was meant to be in at its creation. Indeed, anyone who interprets the term 'mother' to signify the initial cause of our redemption will not be mistaken.

And of course, the heart indeed is that very heart, which opens itself for the Divine indwelling as it retrieves its original form at the time of its formation in the parent. Those who identify the term 'mother' in reference to the first cause of our redemption will surely be on the right path.

Ambrose of Milan

4th centuryChurch Father

Many individuals search for Christ during peaceful times and fail to find Him; however, they encounter Him swiftly during periods of trial. It is as if, after experiencing challenges, she declares: "But hardly had I separated from them before I found Him." She embraced Him and refused to let go. It is written, "Everyone who seeks finds" (Matt. 7:8), and once one discovers Him, they must cling to Him so as not to lose Him. When they went to inform the apostles, Jesus, moved by compassion for those seeking Him, met them and proclaimed: "Rejoice!" They approached, clasped His feet, and worshipped Him (Matt. 28:9). Though they held Him back, He welcomed their grasp because they held Him with faith.

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He likewise appreciated the woman who reached out and was healed from her affliction, remarking: "Someone touched Me, for I perceived power had gone out from Me" (Luke 8:46). Therefore, reach out and hold onto Him through faith, and faithfully embrace His sufferings so that His power might flow into you and restore your spirit. Even if He instructs you, "Do not touch Me," persist in holding onto Him, for "I have not yet ascended to My Father" (John 20:17). When He said to refrain from touching Him upon His resurrection, it may have been directed at someone who believed He had been discreetly taken away and had not risen by His own power. In another passage, you read that He reassured those who held His feet and worshipped: "Do not be afraid" (Matthew 28:10).

O soul, cling to Him as Mary did, proclaiming: "I have taken hold of Him and will not let Him go," just as they both affirmed: "We will hold onto you!" Proceed to the Father, but do not abandon Eve, lest she falter again. Take her with you, no longer lost, but firmly anchored to the tree of life. Grasp her as she clings to your feet, so that she may rise with you. Do not forsake me, for the serpent may inject his venom again, seeking to wound the woman’s heel (Gen. 3:15) and cause Adam to stumble. Let your soul declare: "I will take you to my mother’s house and into the sanctuary of her who bore me" (Song 8:2), that I may understand your mysteries and receive your teachings. Hence, welcome Eve, no longer covered in fig leaves, but adorned with the Holy Spirit and radiant with renewed grace, for she no longer conceals her nakedness (Genesis 3:8), but approaches as if arrayed in brilliant attire, for grace is her garment. Initially, Adam was not unclothed, for innocence was his covering.

Who but the holy Church should guide you in how to hold onto Christ? She has already imparted this wisdom to you, if you truly grasp what you read: "But hardly had I," she states, "departed from them when I found Him whom my soul loves and clung to Him, refusing to let Him go." By what means is Christ held? Not through connections of unrighteousness or a cord of rope, but through the ties of love, bound by heartfelt thought and emotions. If you seek to hold Christ, pursue Him continually, unafraid of any offense; for often in the midst of suffering and even at the hands of persecutors, Christ is more readily found. Indeed, shortly after you have escaped from the grasp of your adversaries without yielding to worldly powers, Christ will come to meet you and will not allow you to be tested for long.

She who sought Christ in this manner and found Him can now say: "I embraced Him and did not let Him go until I brought Him into my mother’s house, and into the inner chamber of the one who conceived me." What is this mother’s house and inner chamber but your own inner, hidden self? Safeguard this dwelling and keep its essence pure, so it may become a spiritual abode built upon the foundation of the holy priesthood, allowing the Holy Spirit to reside within. She who earnestly seeks Christ and implores Him will not be abandoned; instead, He will visit her frequently, for He promises to remain with us until the end of the age (Matt. 28:20). What then is this mother’s house and chamber but your inward nature? Protect this space, maintain its purity, allowing it to be undefiled by thoughts of impurity, transforming it into a sacred home centered on the holy priesthood, where the Holy Spirit can dwell. Those who sincerely seek Christ and call upon Him shall not be forsaken; rather, He is ever-present, assuring us of His eternal companionship (see Matt. 28:20).

Theodoret of Cyrus

5th centuryChurch Father

Since the Bridegroom's essence remains beyond the understanding of even the holy angels, they were unable to provide an answer to my inquiry. Their silence taught me that even they, as created beings, cannot fully grasp the Uncreated One. Consequently, I departed from them in search of my Beloved. Just as I left, I encountered the One my soul adores; I embraced Him and refused to release Him (Song 3:4). Shortly thereafter, I transcended the realm of created beings and the very nature of angels, seeking the incorporeal Beloved of my soul, who is my benefactor. By faith, I approached Him, having moved beyond all things, confirming that the Origin of all creation surpasses everything and cannot be perceived in any form, whether sensory or conceptual, being above essence itself.

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Having scarcely separated from them, she narrates that she found Him and would not allow Him to escape until she brought Him into her mother’s home and the chambers of her conception. She refers to the city as the dwelling of God, which we identify as the Church; the squares and streets symbolize the divine Scriptures, while the vigilant guardians of the city represent the holy prophets and apostles whom the devout soul, yearning for the Divine Word, consults. Following them, she encounters the Bridegroom along with His guardians and servants. Grasping Him tightly, she resolves not to let Him go until she ushers Him into her mother’s house and the chambers of her conception. We understand that the mother of all the faithful is the heavenly Jerusalem, of which the blessed Paul declares: But the heavenly Jerusalem is free; she is the mother of us all (Galatians 4:26).

Cyrill of Jerusalem

4th centuryChurch Father

But the angels who were present acted out of ignorance, asking, “Why do you seek the living among the dead?” (Luke 24:5). Not only was He resurrected, but He was also raised from among the dead. Mary was unaware, which is why in the Song of Songs it speaks to the angels: “Do you see Him whom my soul loves? For I came from them, that is, from the two angels, until I found Him whom my soul loves; I embraced Him and did not let Him go.... After the angels had appeared, Jesus Himself came to reveal His presence, as the Gospel narrates: “And behold, Jesus met them, saying, ‘Rejoice!’ And they came and held His feet” (Matthew 28:9). They grasped Him, fulfilling the promise: “I embraced Him and did not let Him go.”

Gregory of Elvira

4th centuryChurch Father

What do these nights and this place signify in which the Church seeks her beloved Lord, if not the innermost part of her heart, where wisdom abides? In her unwavering devotion, she longs for her Redeemer. Yet if we consider this inner space her heart, what do those nights represent when she seeks her Lord yet cannot locate Him? It suggests that the God of light cannot be discovered amidst the shadows of the night.

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Until I have brought him into my mother's house, and into the chamber of her who conceived me (Song of Songs 3:4; LXX). This expresses the voice of the Church. If the Church is indeed the mother of all believers, it is essential to recognize who the progenitor of the Church is, into whose abode, she declares, she has led her beloved. As previously noted, the Church represents the body of Christ, comprised of united members. The mother of the Church is the holy heavenly Jerusalem.

Gregory the Great

6th centuryChurch Father

In moments of stillness within our daily lives, we find ourselves seeking our Beloved, yearning for our Savior. We search for Him in the night, for while our minds are fully alert to Him, our eyes are still enveloped in darkness. If one does not encounter the Beloved, it becomes essential to rise and journey through the city, which signifies turning our thoughts toward the holy Church in search of the chosen ones. We must look for Him in the streets and squares, that is, we must be attentive to those traversing both the narrow and broad paths to discover His presence, as there are individuals even in worldly matters whose virtues are worthy of emulating. As we pursue Him, we also encounter the guardians of the city—the holy fathers—who oversee the well-being of the Church.

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They encourage our righteous desires through their teachings, whether spoken or written. After briefly passing their guidance, we ultimately find the One we adore; for although our Redeemer was a man among men in His humanity, He reigns supreme in His divinity. Thus, once the guardians are surpassed, we are led to the discovery of the Beloved.

When the guards are moved aside, the Beloved is revealed; for in acknowledging that the Prophets and Apostles are lesser than He, we conclude that He, being God by His very nature, surpasses humanity. Thus, it is essential to first seek the Unseen, so that the Revealed may be cherished more diligently. Holy longings intensify through waiting; however, if they diminish with delay, they were never genuine desires.

Ireneus (Orda)

19th centuryCommentator

The cherished one, upon hearing her beloved's voice, exclaims in admiration of his quickness. She recounts how he arrived at her home, illustrating the splendor of the Palestinian spring, inviting her to the mountain ravines and the vineyards to delight in his presence and sound. She then invites him to her, sharing how she sought him in the city streets during the night, inquiring with the city watchmen about his whereabouts, and ultimately, after discovering him, leading him to her mother’s house. The cherished one urges her companions not to disrupt her tranquility.

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