“Above all, hospitality is sought in one who is to become a bishop. If all desire to hear that word foretold in the Gospel, ‘I was a stranger and you took Me in’ (Mt 25:35), how much more should a bishop desire it? His house must be a common inn for all strangers. A layman fulfills the duty of hospitality if he receives and refreshes one, or two, or a few, not many, in his house. But if a bishop does not receive all, he is inhuman.
“And I fear lest, just as the queen of the south, who came from the ends of the earth to hear the wisdom of Solomon, will condemn the men of the time of Christ’s first coming, and the men of Nineveh, who repented at Jonah’s preaching, will condemn those who. Through contempt and negligence, did not wish to hear the Savior, who is greater than Jonah, so also many of the people who have withdrawn from ecclesiastical rank, yet zealously do the works which a bishop does not consider his own work, may condemn bishops.
“I think John also writes of such people to Gaius: ‘Beloved, you do faithfully whatever you do for the brethren and for strangers, who have borne witness to your love before the Church. If you send them forward in a manner worthy of God, you will do well’ (cf. 3 Jn 1:5-6).
“And truly, by the Holy Spirit speaking in him, he then already rebuked what would later be in the Church, saying: ‘I wrote to the Church, but Diotrephes, who loves to have the preeminence among them, does not receive us. Therefore, if I come, I will remember his deeds which he does, prating against us with malicious words. And not content with this, he himself does not receive the brethren, and forbids those who wish to do so, and casts them out of the Church’ (cf. 3 Jn 1:9-10).
“Truly, one may now see this foretold thing in many cities. It happens that bishops or presbyters, seeing laymen hospitable and lovers of good, look upon this unfavorably, as though a layman could no longer do what a bishop does not do. Such laymen will serve for the condemnation of consecrated persons,” says blessed Jerome.
Saint Paul everywhere commands hospitality to whole Churches. For this reason common houses of hospitality were established, and care for them lay with the bishop. But so that he may fulfill this more faithfully and willingly, one must first ascertain before his election whether he has an inclination toward it.
“A lover of good.” “By this the Apostle means one who is meek, quiet, disturbing no one, measured in everything, and free from envy,” says blessed Theophylact. Or, according to Chrysostom, “one who distributes all his possessions to those in need.”
This requires that he be zealous for every kind of good work, and especially a benefactor. Care for the poor and sick, for widows and orphans, lies upon him. The flock supplies what is needed for this, but the bishop or presbyter must have a heart disposed toward such works.
“Self-controlled” means pure from sins of the flesh, which are possible even in married life. It also means using the marriage bed chastely and at its proper time, or even abstaining from it altogether, as was later enacted by the Councils for bishops.
Blessed Jerome writes: “A bishop must also be self-controlled, sophrona, as the Greeks say. If even laymen are commanded to abstain from their wives for the sake of prayer, what shall be said of a bishop, who must daily offer to God spotless sacrifices for his own sins and for the sins of his people?
“Let us open the book of Kings, and we shall find that Ahimelech the priest did not give David and his servants the showbread before asking whether the servants were clean from a woman, not from a stranger, but from their own wives (see 1 Sam 21). If he had not heard that yesterday and the day before they had no marital relations, he certainly would not have yielded those loaves to them.
“But between the showbread and the Body of Christ there is such distance and difference as between shadow and body, image and truth, or the type of the future and that which the type foreshadowed.
“Therefore, as meekness, patience, sobriety, moderation, freedom from avarice, hospitality, and love of good must be present in a bishop in the highest degree, so also priestly purity or chastity must be such that he abstains not only from fleshly intercourse. The one who is to celebrate the Mystery of the Body of Christ must have a mind pure from thought of a woman, and an eye pure from looking upon her.”
“Just,” that is, “without partiality toward people,” says blessed Theophylact. It is required that he wrong no one in his own dealings, and that when he must examine the affairs of those entrusted to him, he observe the law of justice blamelessly.
Blessed Jerome writes: “A bishop must also be just, so that, presiding over the people, he may preserve justice, giving each what he deserves, and showing no partiality in judgment. The difference between the justice of a layman and that of a bishop is this: a layman may show himself just within a smaller circle, but a bishop must preserve justice in relation to as many persons as he has under his pastoral care.”
“Holy,” that is, “reverent before everything divine, omitting nothing obligatory toward God,” says blessed Theophylact. A bishop must be holy, adorned with every virtue of soul and body.
Yet holiness in this sense is the higher form of sanctity, when “it is joined with piety and sanctified by reverence toward God and by the dedication of everything to Him,” says blessed Jerome.
“Temperate.” “Here the Apostle means not only one who fasts, but one who restrains himself from every passion manifested by the tongue, the hand, or the shameless glance. For temperance consists in not yielding to any passion,” says Chrysostom.
“A bishop must be temperate not only from fleshly desire and from the embraces of a wife, but from all passions of the soul. He must not be inflamed by anger, fall into sorrow, be stricken by fear, or be carried away by immoderate joy.
“Temperance is placed by the Apostle among the fruits of the Holy Spirit. If temperance is required of all, how much more is it required of a bishop, who must patiently and meekly bear the infirmities of the weak and the sins of sinners, comfort the fainthearted, support the weak, repay no one evil for evil, but overcome evil with good,” says blessed Jerome.
“What has been said so far about the virtues of a bishop pertains to his life. What follows pertains to his knowledge,” says blessed Jerome.