John Chrysostom
Such disgrace, such transgressions, and such retribution can be overcome by extending forgiveness to your neighbor; no virtue compares to this. Would you like to understand the strength of this virtue? The Lord states, “Though Moses and Samuel stand before Me, My soul will not take delight in this people” (Jeremiah 15:1). What Moses and Samuel could not achieve in turning away God’s wrath, the act of forgiving offenses can attain. This is why God continually advised those to whom He spoke these words: “Let not your heart think evil against your brother” (Zech. 7:10) and “Let none of you imagine evil against his neighbor” (Zech. 8:17).
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He did not merely suggest to let go; rather, He instructed them to refrain from harboring such thoughts and to eliminate all anger, eradicating this affliction. You believe you are exercising retribution upon your foe, yet it is you who suffers, with anger surrounding you like an executioner, tormenting your own soul. What could be more sorrowful than a person consumed by constant rage? Just as those filled with fury live without peace, so too will the vengeful experience unending unrest: they are perpetually agitated, their inner tumult fueled daily by memories of slights, growing more furious at even the mention of the offender. Simply speaking the name of the adversary ignites their wrath, causing profound internal distress; even the sight of that person instills fear and tremors, as though they are facing dire misfortune.