Jesus Christ said: "Therefore I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven men. Whoever speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven; but whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come" (Mt 12:31-32).
Every sin and every blasphemy which, according to the Lord's word, is remitted or forgiven to men is, in the words of John the Theologian, a sin not unto death. But blasphemy against the Holy Spirit, which will not be forgiven a man either in this age or in the age to come, is a sin unto death.
The Apostle Paul speaks of this unforgivable sin, or of the sin unto death, in the Epistle to the Hebrews: "It is impossible for those who were once enlightened, who have tasted the heavenly gift, and have become partakers of the Holy Spirit. And have tasted the good word of God and the powers of the age to come, and then have fallen away, to renew them again to repentance, since they crucify again for themselves the Son of God and mock Him" (Heb 6:4-6). "For if we sin willfully after receiving the knowledge of the truth, there no longer remains a sacrifice for sins" (Heb 10:26).
In the words of Jesus Christ, blasphemy against the Holy Spirit, as the circumstances of the Lord's preaching show, must be understood as the stubborn unbelief of the Jews. It rejected the evident truth of Christ's teaching, confirmed by great signs and miracles. In the words of the Apostle Paul, stubborn or hardened apostasy from the true faith is indicated, an apostasy that does not allow repentance and correction.
Taking these cases into account, in the Epistle of Saint John the Theologian the sin unto death must be understood as a sin that does not allow repentance, or that rejects the merciful grace of the Lord and Savior. Such are stubborn unbelief, falling away from the faith while refusing correction, and hardened persistence in destructive heretical delusions and grave vices.
By a sin not unto death one may understand every sin of human weakness that does not reject repentance. It is every sin into which a Christian falls, yet recognizes his guilt and turns with sincere contrition to the mercy of the Lord and Savior. Or, by the counsel and persuasion of brotherly love, he can readily be brought to this state of repentance.
From the fact that the holy Theologian speaks without explanation about sin not unto death and sin unto death, one may conclude that these expressions were understandable to the Apostle's contemporary readers. They knew of sins unto death and sins not unto death. The explanation given agrees with this supposition.
"If anyone sees his brother sinning a sin not unto death, let him pray, and God will give him life," that is, to the one sinning not unto death. According to the Apostle's instruction, if someone sees a brother, or a Christian, sinning through human weakness but not alien to repentance for the sin, he must pray to God for him. He must ask that God, by the power of His grace, grant the sinner to offer true repentance, forgive him the sin, and establish him on the path of salvation. He prays in the hope that God will hear the prayer and give him life, that is, restore his inward life of grace, weakened or suppressed by sin.
"There is sin unto death; I do not say that he should pray for that." The Apostle does not call us to prayer for those sinners who reject every means that serves for their correction. They stubbornly remain in unbelief and error, or rise up against the evident truth of the gospel preaching. They remain impenitently hardened in vices, despising every means of God's care that calls them to faith in Jesus Christ and to conversion to the path of salvation.
The Apostle does not forbid praying even for such sinners, but neither does he command it. Their unbelief, obstinacy, hardness, and fixed persistence in errors and vices oppose the success of prayer for them.
"All unrighteousness is sin; but there is sin not unto death." Everything that does not agree with righteousness, with the law, or with the commandments of God, is sin. Therefore all of this is blameworthy for man. It debases him, subjects him to the wrath of God, and deserves punishment.
Yet not every sin is such that it subjects the sinner to separation from God and eternal death. In this addition, "all unrighteousness is sin," the Apostle instills attentiveness to the strict keeping of God's commandments. Every violation of a commandment is sin, and sin must be feared. But not every sin threatens the danger of spiritual death. Not every sin deprives the soul of gracious spiritual life and subjects it to eternal condemnation.