John Chrysostom
Therefore, extend your assistance to your offspring, to prevent yourself from facing consequences due to their actions. Are you not aware of what Eli the elder experienced when he failed to adequately reprimand the misdeeds of his sons (See 1 Kings 4:18)? For when an ailment necessitates a surgical intervention, and the healer attempts to treat it with mere bandaging, the condition quickly becomes untreatable due to the lack of proper care. Similarly, the elder, instead of addressing his children with suitable responses to their wrongful deeds, offered excessive leniency, resulting in him facing punishment alongside them.