John Chrysostom
He ought to have escalated his threats, cast them from his presence, and chastised them with severe punishments, demonstrating much greater strictness and rigour. However, his failure to do so provoked the wrath of God against both himself and his children, leading to his own spiritual ruin alongside theirs. Consider what God communicates to him—or rather, does not communicate, for he is no longer deemed deserving of a response; yet, in addressing a profoundly culpable servant, God conveys the impending calamities through another messenger. Such was the intensity of God's displeasure! Listen to what God tells Samuel regarding Eli; for he prefers to reveal his distress to Samuel and another prophet, communicating with them instead of Eli, implying a total withdrawal from him!
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What does He express to Samuel? Eli “knew how his sons were wicked, and did not restrain them”; not that he failed to admonish them—he did. Yet God states that it was not a true admonition, rejecting it as it lacked strength and persistence. Likewise, if we too care for our children, but do so insufficiently, our concern may not be genuine, similar to how Elijah's discernment fell short.
In the judgment of God, no wealthy individual will come to my defense when I am charged with failing to uphold God's commandments with the necessary fervour. This was the downfall of that esteemed elder: despite his own virtuous life, he, along with his children, faced severe consequences for neglecting the laws of God that had been disdained. If a father, even with strong familial ties, suffered such dire punishment for his inadequate discipline of his children, what justification will we have, who, unbound by such ties, compromise everything through insincere flattery?