John Chrysostom
Do you see what a great good meekness is? It wounds our hearts more than severity, and inflicts a more sensitive wound.
When a man strikes hardened bodies, he produces no very strong sensation. But if he first softens them and makes them tender, then he strikes more deeply. So it is here also. First one must soften, and only then strike.
It is not anger that softens, nor vehement accusation, nor reproaches, but meekness. Anger increases hardness, while meekness destroys it.
Therefore, if you wish to touch someone who has wronged you, deal with him with great meekness. See here also what meekness does.
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Peter meekly reminded the Jews of their transgressions and added nothing more. He spoke of the gift of God, pointed to grace as testimony to what had happened, and extended his word still further.
The Jews were ashamed before Peter's meekness. He spoke as a father and careful teacher to those who had crucified his Master and plotted murder against the Apostles themselves.
They were not merely persuaded, but condemned themselves. They came to a consciousness of what they had done.
This was because he did not let them be carried away by anger. He did not permit their reason to be darkened. By his humility he scattered their indignation like a kind of darkness, and only then set their crime before their eyes.
For this is what usually happens. When we say that we have been wronged, those who wronged us try to prove that they did no wrong. But when we say that we were not wronged, but rather wronged them, they do the opposite.
Therefore, if you wish to put the offender at a loss, do not accuse him, but take his side, and he himself will accuse himself. The human race loves contention.
This is what Peter did. He did not condemn them with all his strength. On the contrary, with all possible meekness he almost tried to defend them, and therefore touched their soul.
How is it clear that they were moved? From their words. What do they say? "What shall we do, men and brethren?"
Those whom they had called deceivers they now call brethren. They do this not so much to compare themselves with them, as to incline them to love and care.
And again, since the Apostles had honored them with this name, they too say, "What shall we do?" They did not say at once, "Then let us repent," but gave themselves over to their will.
A man overtaken by shipwreck or illness, when he sees a pilot or physician, entrusts everything to him and obeys him in all things. So they confessed that they were in extremity and had not even hope of salvation.
And observe: they did not say, "How shall we be saved?" but, "What shall we do?" What then does Peter do? Here again, though all the Apostles had been asked, Peter answers.