Virginity is specifically theirs, and the one who ardently embraces it is likened to them and, more significantly, to the Father, who before all time birthed the Son from a virgin, miraculously and incorruptibly born of His Mother in the later ages, and who eternally proceeds from the Father, not by birth, but in a way that transcends comprehension. Those who attain true virginity — in both spirit and body — and who adorn their thoughts, words, and feelings with the graces of purity are similarly united to this divine essence in a sacred union. However, if you do not aspire to virginity and have not made a commitment to God, you are permitted to have one wife in the Lord, to live with her in holiness, and to cherish her as your own vessel. It is essential to completely refrain from the wives of others. You can achieve true abstinence if you avoid inappropriate encounters, refuse to engage in tempting words and allurements, and turn your gaze from the physical beauty of others to preserve your purity. For it is written, "whoever looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Thus, you remain unclean in the eyes of Christ, who discerns the heart, and this can lead to a propensity for physical infidelity. Yet, what can be said about adultery and other forms of immorality? From a mere glance at physical beauty, a person can fall into various kinds of sin. Therefore, it is imperative to eradicate any deep-seated temptations that could lead to spiritual death, allowing instead the growth of purity and holiness, "without which no one will see the Lord."