John Chrysostom
To understand the depth of hidden intentions, consider the father's enduring love for his son, even amidst false accusations, and his preference for him over all his other children. The Scripture states, "Israel loved Joseph more than all his sons, because he was the son of his old age," and he adorned him with a richly decorated coat. The phrase “he loved Joseph more than all his sons, because he was the son of his old age” signifies that Joseph was born to him later in life, drawing forth the father's greater affection. Indeed, children born later in life often elicit a strong sense of attachment in parents, who seem more inclined to cherish them. However, Scripture shows us that it was not solely this timing that endeared Joseph to his father; after Joseph, another son was born.
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If affection were strictly based on birth order, the youngest child would have garnered even more favor, as he truly was born in Jacob's old age, when he was well into the later years of life.
What can we infer from this? A special grace from above bestowed upon Joseph made him particularly beloved. His commendable qualities distinguished him among his brothers. While the narrative implies that Jacob's love stemmed from Joseph being the son of his old age, this rationale was likely presented to prevent inciting the brothers' jealousy. In reality, Jacob cherished Joseph for his superior spiritual gifts; revealing this would have heightened the brothers' envy, as it would have made evident that Joseph's character warranted greater affection. Envy is a perilous emotion; once it takes root in one's heart, it leaves chaos in its wake, clouding perception and magnifying the attributes of its target, thus further inflating that person's esteem and recognition. This, in turn, brings a deeper anguish to the one consumed by envy.