John Chrysostom
Thus the Evangelist, everywhere rejecting compulsion and showing the freedom of the will and man's self-governance, has expressed the same thing here also. In these very mysteries one thing belongs to God: to give grace. Another belongs to man: to show faith.
But afterward much care is still required of man. For preserving purity, it is not enough for us merely to be baptized and to believe. If we wish to acquire perfect brightness, we must lead a life worthy of it.
God has left this to us ourselves. Our mysterious regeneration and purification from all former sins take place in Baptism. But to remain pure afterward and not admit any defilement again depends on our will and care.
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For this reason the Evangelist reminds us of the very manner of spiritual birth. By comparing it with fleshly birth, he shows its superiority, saying: "who were born not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God."
He said this so that, knowing the lowliness and humiliation of our first birth from blood and fleshly desire, we might understand, by contrast, the greatness and dignity of the second birth by grace.
Then we may have an exalted understanding of it, an understanding worthy of this gift from the One Who begets us in this way. From our side, we may also show great care for it.
We must fear greatly lest, by later negligence and vices, we defile this beautiful garment and be cast out of the bridal chamber, like the five foolish virgins, or like the man who did not have a wedding garment.
That man too was among the guests and had been invited. But even after the invitation and such honor, he showed disrespect toward the one who invited him. Listen to the fate he suffers, a wretched fate worthy of many tears.
He came to take part in the radiant feast. Yet he is not only driven from the feast. Bound hand and foot, he is led into the outer darkness, where he is given over to eternal and unceasing weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Therefore, beloved, let us not consider faith alone sufficient for salvation. If we do not present a pure life, but appear in garments unfitting for our blessed calling, nothing will save us from the same sufferings that befell that miserable man.
Indeed, is it not strange that God and King Himself does not disdain simple, obscure, and worthless people, but brings them from the crossroads to His table, while we show such insensibility?
Even in such honor we do not become better. After being called, we remain in the same evil and thus trample upon the ineffable love for mankind of Him Who called us.
He did not call us to this spiritual and dread communion of the mysteries so that we might approach them with our former wickedness. He called us so that, having put off shameful garments, we might put on those fitting for guests in the royal chambers.
If we do not wish to act worthily of such a calling, this depends on us, not on the One Who so honored us. He does not cast us out of the wondrous assembly of the called. We cast ourselves out.
He did everything from His side. He arranged the wedding feast, prepared the table, sent those who invited, received those who came, and showed every other honor.
But by our unclean garments, that is, by sinful deeds, we insulted Him, those present at the wedding feast, and the whole wedding. Therefore we are justly cast out.
Thus, out of respect for the wedding feast and those invited, the King drives away the audacious and shameless from there. If He had left those clothed in such garments, He Himself would thereby have shown disrespect for the other guests.
But may God grant that no one, neither we nor anyone else, experience such wrath from the One Who called us. This was written before it happens so that, instructed by the threats of Scripture, we may not actually bring ourselves to such dishonor and punishment.
Let us instead be satisfied with these words of Scripture alone, and let us all appear at that call in a radiant garment. May we all obtain it by the grace and love for mankind of our Lord Jesus Christ.
With Him, to the Father and the Holy Spirit be glory, dominion, and honor, now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen.