In this ongoing quest for the Kingdom of Heaven, it is critical to understand that this pursuit cannot rely solely on one’s strength without divine assistance; thus, pray, ask, and it will be given to you. Those who diligently and tirelessly seek will invariably find, and those who continuously knock will have the door opened for them, just as those who regularly ask will receive. Is there any among you who, when his son requests bread, would offer him a stone? Or if he requests fish, would provide a serpent? If you, being flawed, can grant good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father bestow good things on those who ask Him? Many complain to God when their requests are not met immediately, and such dissatisfaction can lead either to despair or, worse, to disbelief. "If you do not receive right away," Chrysostom remarked, "do not lose hope. Christ specifically encouraged His followers to knock, indicating that if the door does not open at once, one must be patient." By continually beseeching God, you will gain what you ask for, even if it does not come right away. This delay in response is intended to encourage diligence; hence the call to keep asking without faltering. However, one might wonder, "What if I ask yet do not receive?" To address this, the Savior told a parable illustrating what it is wise to ask for. Is there anyone here who, when his son requests bread, would give him a stone? The lack of response does not denote refusal; rather, it may be that the request is misguided. Although you are a child of God, this alone does not guarantee receptiveness. Conversely, asking for inappropriate things could impede what you seek. Avoid asking for worldly matters, and instead, request spiritual blessings, and you will surely receive them. If one contends, "Why do I not receive even when I ask for spiritual matters?" it may be due to either a lack of earnestness in your asking, unworthiness to receive, or a premature cessation of your requests. Furthermore, you may inquire, "Why hasn’t the Savior specified what we should pray for?" He has already outlined everything clearly: "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things (earthly matters) will be added to you" (Matthew 6:33).
Still, should we truly regard all temporal needs as unworthy requests from our Heavenly Father? Did Christ not instruct us to pray for our daily sustenance? Indeed, this daily provision encompasses essential elements for sustaining life, implying that some worldly requests are viable to make, contrary to St. John Chrysostom's assertion. After all, Jesus prayed for healing for the afflicted, who were healed, indicating that seeking health and relief from illness is permissible. Bodily health is indeed vital for life and is as temporal as food, clothing, shelter, and other necessities. Thus, it is logical to assert that Christ did not forbid petitions for earthly provisions, provided they are necessary. In His statement, "Ask and it shall be given unto you," He primarily referred to those blessings that lead to eternal life, reassuring His followers of divine support as they strive to obey all His commandments and bear the yoke He offers. This yoke, contrary to initial impressions, is not burdensome; all of Christ's commandments, His yoke, can be encapsulated in His concluding directive: "In all things, as you would have men do unto you, do ye also unto them."