John Chrysostom notes that His Mother hesitated to declare His virgin birth, fearing that if they perceived Him as born of a virgin, they would cease to recognize Him as the son of David, leading to many complications.
In His response, the young Jesus made it clear that even at His tender age, He comprehended His divine calling: "Did you not know that I must be in my Father’s house?" While Mary addressed Joseph as His father, Jesus redirected her attention to His heavenly Father, showcasing both love as His Son and wisdom as Lord. He also questioned why Mary and Joseph sought Him so fervently, given their awareness of the ongoing divine plan, instead of recognizing Him in the temple, where He belonged. Yet, the full scope of Christ’s mission remained a mystery to Joseph and Mary, who grasped only that the Divine Child rightfully acknowledged God as His Father. They struggled to fathom the profound commitment embodied in Jesus' words regarding the will of His Heavenly Father, who sent His only begotten Son into the world so that all who believe in Him may have eternal life.
Despite the depth of His purpose, Jesus understood that the moment for His public ministry had not yet arrived, and thus willingly returned with Joseph and Mary to Nazareth, living humbly in the home of a carpenter. Life in the Holy Family resumed quietly and serenely; the awareness of His divine identity, the astonishment of the scholars, and the admiration of the people all failed to sway the Divine Child from His obedience to Joseph and Mary. He exemplified filial devotion for all generations. However, righteous Joseph, a witness to the Nativity of the God-Man and the ensuing miraculous events, was not to witness His Son's ministry, suffering, death, and resurrection. According to tradition, Joseph passed away at the age of 111, just before Jesus began His public work for humanity's salvation. Following the death of her earthly guardian, the Mother of God continued to dwell in Nazareth, steadfastly believing in the fulfillment of God's promises and patiently awaiting divine guidance regarding her Son.