John Chrysostom
Do you notice that the Apostle burns with a strong desire to see the Romans and yet does not dare to do this against the will of God?
Rather, he moderates his desire by the fear of God. He loved them and strove toward them. Yet even when he loved, he did not wish to see them against God's will.
Such is true love, not the love found among us, who break both laws of love. Either we love no one, or if we do love, we love against the will of God.
In both ways we act contrary to the divine law. It is hard to hear this, but harder still to do it.
When, you ask, do we love against God's will? Whenever we pay no attention to Christ tormented by hunger, yet give children, friends, and relatives more than they need.
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But is it necessary to continue? Each of us, if he examines his conscience, will find that this happens in many cases.
Blessed Paul was not like this. He knew how to love, and to love as one ought and as was fitting. Though he surpassed all in love, he did not transgress its boundaries.
Therefore see how abundantly he was filled with both things, the fear of God and love for the Romans. His strong love was expressed in the fact that he prayed without ceasing.
He prayed even when he did not receive what he asked. His constant piety was shown in the fact that, while possessing love, he did not cease to be obedient to God's direction.
Once Paul asked the Lord three times and not only did not receive what he asked, but, having not received it, counted it a great mercy that he had not been heard.
So in all things he looked to God. Now, although he received what he asked, he did not receive it when he asked, but later, and he was not at all grieved by this.
I say this so that we too may not sorrow when we are not heard, or when we are heard later. For we are not better than Paul, who counted both as mercy, and quite rightly.
Having once given himself to the all-governing hand, he submitted to it with such obedience as clay to the potter, and followed wherever God led.
After saying that he prayed to see the Romans, the Apostle next mentions the reason for his desire. What, then, is this reason?