John Chrysostom
The anguish these actions warranted was not solely due to their betrayal in selling their brother into bondage, but also for the immense sorrow they caused their father, who was already advanced in years.
And tearing his garments, he put on sackcloth, mourning for his son a long time.
וַיִּקְרַ֤ע יַעֲקֹב֙ שִׂמְלֹתָ֔יו וַיָּ֥שֶׂם שַׂ֖ק בְּמָתְנָ֑יו וַיִּתְאַבֵּ֥ל עַל־בְּנ֖וֹ יָמִ֥ים רַבִּֽים׃
5 Church Fathers comment on this verse
The anguish these actions warranted was not solely due to their betrayal in selling their brother into bondage, but also for the immense sorrow they caused their father, who was already advanced in years.
Due to the calamity befalling his son, he fell into deep despair, suffering from sleeplessness and an inability to find solace. The father also grieved for Joseph, as it is written, ‘he would not be comforted’ (Genesis 37:35). This illustrates how the brutal and lethal assaults by the Jews against Christ caused profound anguish to God the Father.
With deep sorrow, he lamented, “Why was I not consumed instead of you, my son? Why did the beast not find me first, so that when his hunger had been satisfied, he might have spared you, my son? Why was I not torn apart by the beast? Was I not the nourishment to fulfill his appetite? Oh, how my heart aches for Joseph! Where is my son, that I might go there and weep over his beauty, pulling my grey hairs in grief? I cannot endure life without seeing Joseph. I bear the guilt for your demise, dear child; by sending you into the wild to seek your brothers and the shepherds, I caused your death. From this moment forth, I shall weep for you, child, shedding tears every hour, even descending to the depths for you, my son.
Instead of your body, Joseph, I will keep your robe before my eyes, allowing my tears to flow over it endlessly. Once again, your garment, my son, invokes another wave of sorrow. It remains whole; thus I believe the beast did not consume you, my beloved son, but rather human hands have stripped and slain you. If indeed the beast had devoured Joseph, as your brothers claim, your robe would have been shredded. It is impossible for a beast to strip off your clothing and then feast upon your flesh. Moreover, if it had removed your clothing first and then consumed you, your garment would bear bloodstains; there are, however, no claw marks or bite wounds present on it now. From where does this blood originate? If the creature that attacked Joseph acted alone, how could it have done all this? Behold, I am left with nothing but sorrow, mourning for Joseph, and grieving over the Robe; I endure two lamentations, two profound sorrows, for Joseph and for the Robe taken from him. I am nearing death, Joseph, my light, my solace; let your Robe accompany me down to the depths. I cannot bear to see the light without you, my son Joseph. Do not let my soul remain within me apart from your soul, my beloved Joseph!”
Jacob tore his garments and, clothed in grief, cried out: "Why could it not have been me instead of you, my son? Why did the beast not find me and leave you untouched? Why was I not the one it devoured? O, wretched fate! My heart is crushed for Joseph! Woe is me! Where is my son, that I might mourn over his lost beauty? I cannot bear to live without Joseph! O my child! I bear the blame for your demise! I condemned you to death when I sent you to the fields to seek your brothers and the flocks. O, my dear child! I shall mourn and weep until I reach the depths of Sheol. Instead of your lifeless form, I hold your garments before me with tears. Yet my sorrow deepens again.
They remain unscathed, and I fear that it was not the beast that consumed you, but rather the hands of men who took your life. If indeed a beast had devoured you, as your brothers claimed, your clothing would have been shredded, for no creature would first strip the garment and then eat the body. However, if it had removed the clothing first, there would be no blood upon it. There are neither claw nor tooth marks on this garment; why then is it stained with blood? If the wilderness contained only beasts and there were no thieves, I might grieve for the loss to wild animals without suspecting human wrongdoing. I lament for Joseph, and his garments pull me into yet another layer of sorrow. Thus, I am burdened by two griefs: as I weep, I ponder how his clothes were stripped away and how his body came to harm or was consumed. I shall perish, my light and strength, Joseph, and I wish your garment to accompany me into the grave. Without you, Joseph, I refuse to see the light of day! And for many days, Jacob mourned for Joseph. All his sons and daughters gathered to bring him comfort, but he would not be consoled, declaring: "With anguish I shall descend to Sheol to join my son!"
Jacob ripped his clothes, donned his mourning robes, and grieved for his son for many days.
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