Genesis 44:18Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

Judah stepped forward and addressed him. He explained that he had taken the young man from his father and had declared, "If I do not bring him back to you, I will bear guilt before you all my life." So now, as he approached Joseph, he recounted everything in detail, hoping to evoke compassion and gain favor for the young man's release. Judah said to him, "My lord, allow your servant to speak a word." Notice how he speaks with the utmost respect, just as a servant would to his master. Reflect on those dreams of the sheaves that deepened the brothers' animosity towards him, and stand in awe of God’s providential wisdom that orchestrated everything to come to pass despite numerous challenges.

Judah approached Joseph with heartfelt words, stirring deep affection within Joseph for his siblings. One of the brothers, Judah, stepped forward, bowed down, and earnestly entreated, saying, "Please do not let your anger rise, my lord; allow me to speak."

You resemble Pharaoh in that you possess the authority to deliver a definitive and clear judgment of the law while also having the ability to offer grace.