John Chrysostom
"I am not speaking," He says, "of all of you." O longsuffering! He does not yet reveal the betrayer. On the contrary, He veils his deed, thereby giving him an opportunity for repentance.
He both reveals and does not reveal, speaking in this way: "He who eats bread with Me has lifted up his heel against Me."
It seems to me that the words, "A servant is not greater than his master," were also said so that those who happen to suffer evil from servants or from insignificant people may not be scandalized.
They should look to the example of Judas, who, after receiving countless benefits, repaid his Benefactor with evil. Therefore He added, "He who eats bread with Me."
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Leaving aside everything else, He mentioned what could especially have restrained and shamed him. He means: the one whom I fed, the one whom I made a participant at My table.
He said this to teach us to do good to those who do evil to us, even when they are incorrigible.
Since He had said, "I am not speaking of all of you," He finally separates Judas, so as not to bring fear upon many. He says, "He who eats bread with Me."
The expression, "not of all," does not necessarily point to one person. Therefore He added, "He who eats bread with Me," showing the wretched man that He was not suffering his attack in ignorance, but with full knowledge.
This again, more than anything else, could have restrained him. He did not say, "He will betray Me," but, "He has lifted up his heel against Me," in order to express the treachery, wickedness, and secrecy of his design.
All this was written so that we would not remember wrongs against those who offend us, but would admonish them and weep over them.
Indeed, those who suffer offense are not worthy of tears, but those who inflict it. The extortioner, the slanderer, and everyone who does any other evil harm themselves far more.
They bring us the greatest benefit, if we do not avenge ourselves. Suppose, for example, that someone robbed you, and you thanked and glorified God for the offense.
Through this thanksgiving you have gained countless rewards for yourself, just as that man has prepared inexpressible fire for himself.
If someone says, "What if I could not take revenge on the one who offended me, because I am weaker than he?" I answer this: you could be irritated and angry, because that lies within our power.
You could wish evil to the one who grieved you, curse him a thousand times, and disgrace him everywhere. Therefore, whoever did not do this will receive a reward also for not taking revenge.
It is clear that he would not have taken revenge even if he could have done so. For the offended person, if he is fainthearted, uses every weapon. He avenges himself on the offender with curses, insults, and slanders.
Therefore do not merely refrain from this. Pray for him as well. If you not only refrain from doing these things, but also pray for him, you will be like God.
"Pray," it is said, "for those who abuse you, that you may be like your Father in heaven" (Mt 5:44-45).
Do you see what great benefit we receive from offenses caused to us by others? Nothing delights God so much as when we do not return evil for evil.
But why do I say, when we do not return evil for evil? We have been commanded to return the opposite: good deeds and prayers.
Therefore Christ also repaid the one who intended to betray Him with benefits. He washed his feet, rebuked him secretly, reproved him with meekness, served him, deemed him worthy of the table and the kiss.
Although Judas did not become better even from this, Christ still did not cease to do what belonged to Him.
But if you wish, I will teach you also by the example of servants, and especially of the servants of the Old Testament. Then you will see that we can have no excuse when we remember wrongs.
Do you want me to speak to you of Moses? Or shall I carry the discourse still further back? The more ancient the examples presented, the more persuasive they will be.
Why is this so? Because virtue was more difficult then. Those who lived at that time had neither written teachings nor examples of life.
Nature alone struggled without any external help and was compelled to swim everywhere without support.
For this reason, when Scripture praised Noah, it did not simply call him perfect, but added, "in his generation" (Gen 6:9). That is, he was perfect at a time when there were many obstacles.
Certainly others after him also became glorious. Yet he will be in no way less than they, because he was perfect in his own time.
Who, then, was longsuffering before Moses? Blessed and noble Joseph, who, having been glorified for chastity, was no less glorified for longsuffering.
He was sold, though he had done no wrong, but had served, labored, and fulfilled everything proper to servants. An evil slander was raised against him, but he did not avenge himself, though he had his father on his side.
On the contrary, he even brought food to his brothers in the wilderness. When he did not find them, he did not despair and return, though he had the opportunity if he had wished.
Instead, he always preserved a truly brotherly disposition toward these fierce and cruel men. Again, when he was sitting in prison and was asked the reason, he said nothing bad about them.
He only said, "I have done nothing," and, "I was stolen out of the land of the Hebrews" (Gen 40:15). After this, when he again received authority, he both fed them and delivered them from countless evils.
Thus, when we keep watch over ourselves, the malice of our neighbor cannot turn us away from virtue.
But his brothers were not like this. They stripped him of his garment, wanted to kill him, and reviled him because of his dream.
He brought them food, while they plotted to deprive him of freedom and life. They themselves ate, and despised their brother after throwing him naked into a pit.
What could be worse than such savagery? What murderers were not more humane than they? Then, after drawing him out of the pit, they delivered him to a thousand deaths.
They sold him to foreign and savage men, who were going to barbarians. But when he became king, he not only did not avenge himself on them, but delivered them, as far as lay in his power, even from sin.
He called everything that had happened an act of God's providence, not of their malice. Whatever he did with them, he did not do in order to avenge the offense, but only in pretense, for his brother's sake.
Therefore, when he later saw that they would not let his brother go from them, he immediately cast off the mask. He wept loudly and embraced them, as though they had shown him the greatest benefit, though they had previously destroyed him.
He brought them all into Egypt and showered them with countless benefits. What justification shall we have, then, if after the law and grace, and after such an increase of wisdom, we do not imitate one who lived before grace and the law?
Who will deliver us from punishment? Truly, there is nothing worse than remembering wrongs. The debtor of ten thousand talents also showed this.
At first his debt was forgiven, and then it was demanded again. It was forgiven by God's love for mankind, and demanded again because of his cruelty and remembrance of wrongs toward his fellow servant (Mt 18:24-38).
Knowing all this, let us forgive the sins of our neighbors and repay them with good. Then we too may receive mercy from God, by the grace and love for mankind of our Lord Jesus Christ.
To Him be glory and dominion unto ages of ages. Amen.