John Chrysostom
They came very opportunely, because the instruction had already been completed. "And they marveled that He talked with a woman. Yet no one said, What do You seek? or, Why are You talking with her?"
At what did they marvel? At His meekness and extreme humility, that He, being so great, deigned with such humility of mind to converse with a poor woman, and one who was a Samaritan besides.
Though they marveled, they did not ask the reason for the conversation. So they had been taught to observe the duty of disciples. So they feared and revered Him.
Although they did not yet have a proper understanding of Him, they nevertheless looked upon Him as a wondrous man and cherished great reverence for Him.
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It is true that in many cases they showed much boldness. For example, John leaned on His breast. Or they came to Him and said: "Who is greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven?" (Mt 18:1).
Likewise, the sons of Zebedee asked Him that one might sit at His right hand and the other at His left (Mk 10:37).
Why then did they not ask Him in the present case? Because all those occasions concerned themselves, and therefore they needed to ask. The present circumstance did not concern them at all.
Moreover, John did this, that is, reclined on Christ's breast, much later, near the end. Then he enjoyed special nearness to Him and was completely assured of Christ's love.
He, as it is said, was the disciple "whom Jesus loved" (Jn 13:23). What can be compared with such blessedness?
But we, beloved, should not limit ourselves to blessing the apostle. We should do everything to be numbered ourselves among those who are blessed. Let us imitate the evangelist.
To this end, consider by what he acquired so great a love. By what, then? He left his father, the boat, and the nets, and followed Christ.
But this was common to him with his brother, with Peter, Andrew, and the other apostles. What then was particular to him, from which Christ's great love arose?
The evangelist himself says nothing of this about himself, except that he was loved by the Savior. Out of modesty, he keeps silent about the virtues for which he was loved.
That Christ loved him with some special love is evident to all. Yet we do not see him conversing with Christ or asking Him anything separately from the others, as Peter, Philip, Judas, and Thomas often did.
We see this only when John wished to please and show obedience to his fellow apostle (Jn 13:24-25). When the chief apostle urged him by a sign, then he asked Jesus.
For these two apostles had great love between them. Thus we see them entering the temple together and speaking to the people together.
It is true that Peter always acts and speaks with greater fervor. At the end he even heard from Christ Himself: "Do you love Me more than these?" (Jn 21:15).
The one who loved "more than these" was surely himself loved. Yet this plainly came from love for Jesus, whereas the other came from the love of Jesus Himself.
What then stirred this special love toward John? It seems to me that this man showed exceptional modesty and meekness. For this reason he never displayed boldness in any case.
How great this virtue is can be seen from the example of Moses. This very thing made him so great and glorious. Nothing can be compared with humility of mind.
For this reason Christ began the Beatitudes with it. Intending to lay, as it were, the foundation of the greatest building, He placed humility first of all.
Without it, it is impossible, impossible, to be saved. Even if someone fasts, prays, and gives alms, if he does these things with pride and lacks humility, all this is abominable.
If it is done with humility, it is desirable, greatly beloved, and full of hope.
Therefore let us humble ourselves, beloved, let us humble ourselves. If we keep watch over ourselves, this virtue will be very easy for us.
And what, indeed, can stir you to pride, O man? Do you not see the nothingness of your nature, and the readiness of your will to incline toward evil?
Think of your end. Consider the multitude of your sins. But perhaps you have accomplished many great works, and therefore think highly of yourself.
Yet by this very thing you lose everything. Not so much the sinner as the virtuous person must take care for humility. Why so?
Because the sinner is compelled toward humility by conscience. But if the virtuous person does not keep careful watch over himself, he is carried up as though by wind and is immediately darkened, like that Pharisee.
You help the poor, but you give them not your own property, but the Lord's, held in common for all His servants like yourself.
Therefore, seeing your own misfortune in your neighbor's misfortune, and learning your own nature in others, you must humble yourself all the more.
Perhaps we too have come from such ancestors. If wealth has fallen to us, it can again depart from us. And what is wealth? An empty shadow, vanishing smoke, the flower of grass, or rather something even less than a flower.
Why then are you puffed up over grass? Does wealth not fall also to thieves, adulterers, fornicators, and robbers of graves? Does it puff you up that you have such partners in acquisition?
Or do you love honor? There is no surer means to honor than almsgiving. Honors acquired by wealth and predominance of power are forced and hateful to others.
Honors given for almsgiving are rendered by the free will and conscience of those who honor. Therefore those who honor can never take these honors away.
If people have such respect for the merciful and desire every good thing for them, then consider what reward and recompense they will receive from the God who loves mankind.
Let us seek this wealth, which abides forever and never disappears. Then, having become great here and been glorified there, we may attain eternal blessings.
This is by the grace and love for mankind of our Lord Jesus Christ, with whom to the Father and the Holy Spirit be glory, now and ever and unto the ages of ages. Amen.
At that time the disciples come and find Him conversing with a woman: "and they marveled that He talked with a woman." He who is worshiped by angels conversed with a harlot.
He who shares the infinite Kingdom with the Father conversed privately with a woman.