John Chrysostom
“That you receive her in the Lord, as befits the saints,” that is, receive her with honor for the Lord’s sake. One who receives even an insignificant person for the Lord’s sake receives him with care.
Since Phoebe was holy, consider for yourself what care she had the right to receive. Therefore the Apostle added, “as befits the saints,” that is, as saints ought to be received.
You must serve her for two reasons: because you receive her for the Lord’s sake, and because she is holy.
“And assist her in whatever matter she may need from you.” Do you see how this is not burdensome? He did not say, free her from all her needs. He said, provide what you can and lend a helping hand, whatever needs she may have among you.
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Moreover, he does not speak of all her needs, but of those she will have among you. She will need what you also are able to provide.
Then again comes unspeakable praise: “for she has been a patroness of many, and of myself as well.” Do you notice Paul’s prudence? He placed praise first, exhortation in the middle, and then praise again.
Thus he defended the need of this blessed woman on both sides with praises. How then is Phoebe not blessed, since she was found worthy of such testimony from Paul?
She was able to render help to Paul himself, the teacher of the whole world. This is the crown of all her perfections. Therefore the Apostle placed it at the end, saying, “and of myself as well.”
What does “and of myself as well” mean? It means him who was the preacher of the whole world, endured countless sufferings, and alone sufficed for many thousands.
Therefore, men and women, let us imitate this holy woman, and also the one whom Paul names after Phoebe together with her husband. Who are they?