John Chrysostom
He states that your love for your son will ultimately lead to our downfall. If you refuse to allow him to accompany us, we will soon be consumed by hunger.
I take the boy upon me, require him at my hand: unless I bring him again, and restore him to thee, I will be guilty of sin against thee for ever.
אָֽנֹכִי֙ אֽ͏ֶעֶרְבֶ֔נּוּ מִיָּדִ֖י תְּבַקְשֶׁ֑נּוּ אִם־לֹ֨א הֲבִיאֹתִ֤יו אֵלֶ֙יךָ֙ וְהִצַּגְתִּ֣יו לְפָנֶ֔יךָ וְחָטָ֥אתִֽי לְךָ֖ כָּל־הַיָּמִֽים׃
4 Church Fathers comment on this verse
He states that your love for your son will ultimately lead to our downfall. If you refuse to allow him to accompany us, we will soon be consumed by hunger.
Judas spoke to his father, offering comfort, saying, "If I do not bring Benjamin and present him to you, I will bear guilt before you for all my days."
The youngest brother, Benjamin, remained constrained, still immersed in paternal affection (See Gen. 42:38). He was held captive by the bindings of the Law and familial tradition. Meanwhile, the desperation of hunger grew as he arrived later (cf. 1 Cor. 15:8). Two men marked his assurance, Reuben and Judah (cf. Gen. 42:37), representing humility and confession. Joseph places his trust in them as guarantees to his father, with one being the firstborn (See Gen. 29:32), and the other signifying the resurrected. The firstborn symbolizes the Law, while the resurrected signifies the Gospel.
I may remain burdened by sin against you for all my days, meaning I stand vulnerable to your anger with no expectation of pardon. (Gen. 42:37) When comparing this sentiment to that previously articulated by Reuben during the same event (Gen. 42:37), it is evident that Judah's heart is more fitting for the role of the firstborn of Israel than Reuben's. Reuben, despite his courageous vow, jeopardized the lives of his two sons, who were innocent and uninvolved in his predicament; whereas Judah prioritizes his love for his father and the well-being of his family. As a testament to his devotion, he offers his father's favor in place of his own life, ultimately valuing that favor above life itself.
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