"If it is possible, let this cup pass from Me." He alone spoke to the Father, understanding fully that while there was a possibility for the cup to be removed, His purpose was to partake of it for the sake of all, fulfilling the payment of debts that neither the prophets nor the saviors could settle through their deaths. "Father, let this cup pass from Me." He who foretold His death through His prophets and patterned the mystery of His sacrifice on righteous men could not, when His own time came, shun death or decline to drink from the cup He must bear. For had He wished to avoid it or reject it, He would not have equated His body to a temple, stating, "Destroy this temple, and in three days I will raise it up" (John 2:19), nor would He have asked the sons of Zebedee, "Are you able to drink the cup that I am about to drink?" (Matthew 20:22). Elsewhere, He said, "I have a baptism to be baptized with, and how great is my distress until it is accomplished!" (Luke 12:50) and, "As Moses lifted up the serpent in the wilderness, so must the Son of Man be lifted up" (John 3:14). He also declared, "For just as Jonah was three days and three nights in the belly of the great fish, so the Son of Man will be three days and three nights in the heart of the earth" (Matthew 12:40), stating, "The Son of Man must suffer many things and be rejected" (Luke 9:22), and, "With great desire I have longed to eat this Passover with you before I suffer" (Luke 22:15). "The Son of Man goes as it is written of Him" (Matthew 26:24). Even on that fateful evening when He surrendered Himself, He shared His body with His apostles and poured out His blood for His disciples, instructing them to partake in remembrance of His suffering.
He, who instructed His disciples not to fear death, saying, "Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul" (Matthew 10:28), how could He Himself dread death and plead for the cup to be taken from Him? He who willingly embraced a life of months in the womb and years on Earth—did He want His cup to bypass Him and all His manifestations to be in vain when only a few hours remained? While in Jerusalem, delivering His call, He remarked, wishing to reveal the vastness of His grace: "If the miracles done in you had been done in Sodom, it would have remained until this day" (Matthew 11:23). However, Sodom faced destruction, even though it might have been spared due to His coming. Despite this, He did not rescind the timing of His manifestation; how then did He seek to forfeit the blessings that would arise from His suffering, which, had they occurred in Lot’s day, might have allowed Sodom and neighboring cities to thrive? Should He have sacrificed the cup for the sake of His people to avoid their demise at His second coming—acting as the agent of His own death—then according to that reasoning, any nation He visited would have delivered Him to death upon the cross. Yet, since they (the Jews) disregarded His miracles, they did not perish solely due to His crucifixion; they had perished even before His execution for their refusal to believe in His signs. "If it is possible, let this cup pass from Me." He expressed this due to the human frailty with which He was clothed, for He truly took on our nature without pretense. Given His authentic weakness, fear and distress over it were inevitable as He embraced flesh. Sustained in hunger by bread, weary from toil, appearing powerless in sleep, He manifested both the confounding sense of death in His own nature as well as the reality of being the son of Adam, over whom, as the apostle notes, death reigned (Romans 5:14). "And He said to His disciples, 'Watch and pray, lest you fall into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak'" (Matthew 26:41). If it is not your spirit that afflicts you when you are afraid, but the frailty of your flesh, how could I have feared death, unless it was to demonstrate the fear of death that burdens the flesh I wear? For if Simon, led to fear by a servant girl (Matthew 26:69), did not tremble at the sight of the Romans—seeking to have his head turned in shame while requesting crucifixion—how could the Lord, who empowered the apostles to disregard death, according to His declaration, “Fear not those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul” (Matthew 10:28), how could He Himself exhibit fear in the face of death? It would be unfitting for Him to experience such dread; if fear were warranted, it should have been at the time of His arrest, not before, for then He healed the ear of the aggressor (Luke 22:51). He permitted the sword to be drawn, and when the moment arose for its use, He commanded, “Put your sword back in its place” (Matthew 26:52).
In further contemplation, it becomes evident why Christ prayed, "Not my will, but Yours be done." Since through the Son, the debts owed were absolved, and through Him the way was opened for the nations to turn back to God, He did not claim the grace that existed before the foundation of the world. From the onset, although everything was created through Him, He remained humble, as evidenced in Moses' words, "And God saw all that He had made, and behold, it was very good" (Genesis 1:31); this was so that all creation would become indebted to the Father. Similarly, at the hour of restoration, He willingly renounced all, saying, "Your will be done," that those redeemed by the death of the Only Begotten might owe their existence to the Father. Or perhaps He uttered this to surrender the body to what belongs to the body. It was evident that all His tribulations served as a testament to His physical reality, so its truth might be seen. Nevertheless, the heretics who examined these signs of His flesh failed to be convinced. Just as He experienced hunger, thirst, fatigue, and sleep, so too did He experience fear. Was He not made to endure such feelings, so that it would not be asserted that apart from suffering and effort, our transgressions are atoned for? Or was it to teach His disciples to entrust their lives and deaths to God's will? If He, in His wisdom, knelt to pray for what was to come, how much more ought those of weaker faith yield their wills to the All-Knowing One? Additionally, in order for His suffering to provide comfort to His disciples, He adapted to their understanding, portraying the weight of their fears upon Himself, setting the example that before death, they should not succumb to useless anxiety. If He, who could not fear, did in fact express fear and sought deliverance, even knowing it was not possible, how much more should others pray before facing temptation to be spared from it? Furthermore, when faced with temptation, when thoughts tend to roam aimlessly, He prayed to instruct us on the necessity of prayer against the schemes of evil, suggesting that earnest prayers help to center scattered thoughts. Moreover, in desiring to bolster those afraid of death, He demonstrated that He too experienced fear, so as to convey to them that being overwhelmed by fear would not lead to destruction, unless they became entrenched in it. This truth was encapsulated in His plea, “Not my will, Father, but Yours be done,” stating I will die to save many. Or, perhaps, to triumph over death itself. Or to openly exhibit fear of suffering so that death might not only resolve to engulf Him but hasten to release Him. To conquer death, all this transpired, which is found in You, O Lord, concealed within it. Your Divinity remained untouched by death; it could not encroach upon Your deep mysteries. Though the existence of Your Godhead was declared, for a season You veiled it as if beneath a garment, masking Your Divine identity with the name of man. For those who bore only the mark of the first Adam found their bodies became fodder for death, while those who take on the mark of the second Adam reign over and conquer it. That first Adam, by partaking, surrendered his will to the flesh, undermining and destroying the body, rendering it food for death; while the second Adam, through His firm will, fortified the body, delivering it from the clutches of death. "Not my will, but Yours," by these words He positioned Himself in opposition to Adam, who rejected the Creator’s will and heeded the enemy’s voice, thereby falling into the grasp of his adversary. But the Lord dismissed the desires of the flesh to uphold the will of the One who fashioned it, recognizing that all happiness is rooted in the will of His Father. "Not My will be done, but Yours." Did He possess the intent contrary to that of His Father? Why then did He state, "Not my will be done, but Yours"? In another context, He affirmed, "I came not to do My will, but the will of Him who sent Me" (John 6:38). Yet the will of the Father is, "Of those whom You gave Me, I have lost none" (John 18:9). Clearly, His desire diverges from that of the Father. Isaiah proclaimed, "It was the Lord's will to crush Him and cause Him to suffer" (Isaiah 53:10), and further states, "He bore the sin of many" (Isaiah 53:12), revealing that this was indeed His will. How are these to be reconciled? For they highlight two wills: one belonging to the Lord, and the other His, while the actions converge into one purpose. When the Lord aimed to assure His audience of His sovereign authority, it may have appeared to some that He held an opposing will. St. Ephrem illustrates that Christ did not possess a will that opposed the Father’s. Likewise, before Lazarus' tomb, He exclaimed, "I thank You, Father, that You have heard Me. I knew that You always hear Me; but I said this for the sake of the crowd standing here, that they may believe that You sent Me" (John 11:41-42)—this in service to the people’s faith in His divine origin. The same understanding can be applied to all His profound declarations. To demonstrate His unity with the Father, He attributed and credited all acts to Him, while for the honor of His Father, He represented Himself as in need of these things, even though He accomplished them entirely of His own volition. There existed no necessity compelling the Lord to embrace humiliation, thus shaming those who claimed He succumbed to the dominion of darkness. Indeed, the forces of darkness shouted loudly, declaring, "You are the Son of God" (Mark 3:11), and pleaded with Him not to consign them to the abyss. How could those who sought to evade Gehenna prevail over Him?