Augustine of Hippo
He entered the home and observed that all arrangements for burial had been made in accordance with tradition. He asked them, "Why are you troubled and crying? The young girl is not dead, but merely sleeping." The Lord spoke truthfully: she was in a state of sleep, but only for the One who had the power to awaken her. After bringing her back to consciousness, He restored the living daughter to her parents.
In certain accounts, Matthew reports the words “The wife is not dead, but asleep,” while Mark and Luke describe her as a twelve-year-old maiden. This difference may stem from Matthew’s interpretation of the term in relation to the Hebrew language. In other parts of Scripture, the term “wife” refers not only to those who have been united with their husbands but also to chaste, innocent virgins. An example can be seen in the creation of Eve: “And the Lord God created...” Furthermore, in a notable passage in the book of Numbers, it is instructed that virgins who have not known a man should not be put to death.
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The Apostle Paul employs a similar terminology when he states that Christ was born of a woman, which seems more plausible than suggesting that at the young age of twelve she was already married and had relations with her husband.